The Total Single

The Total Single

Friday, February 15, 2019

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 


The 10 Commandments of Dating



https://youtu.be/vr9f3x84rlA

In dating because this word and its subject is not spelled out in the Bible, yet God does give us various examples of how this should be done- Biblically people ONLY DATE TO SET A DATE-MEANING MARRY! 

Commandment #1: Do Not Date someone who is unsaved, or someone who does not share your spiritual and religious views.

Commandment #2: DO NOT DATE SOMEONE WHO YOU WOULD NOT CONSIDER MARRYING! 
Dating is a dress-rehearsal for marriage! People don’t change just because you get married, rather than change they get comfortable… If a person is a certain way when you are dating them, then marriage will only magnify who they really are. Things only change by the Power of God. Ask for Power and not change, because the power is great enough to make an everlasting change!

Commandment #3: Do not date someone who does not love you, or appreciate you, or who cheats on you.

Commandment #4: Do not date someone you cannot trust.

Commandment #5: Do not date someone who you can’t be real, open, honest, and vulnerable with.

Commandment #6: Do not date someone who devalues you or disrespects you in any way.

Commandment #7: Do not date someone who you cannot follow or lead.

Commandment #8: Do not date someone who is jealous of you or tries to compete with you.

Commandment #9: Do not date someone who has a totally different vision than what you know God has given you for your life.

Commandment #10: Do not date someone who totally hates your family and is unwilling to make some level of comprise to have a cordial relationship with them.

*Get a spiritual mentor to pray with you and ask God for confirmation about the person you are dating!*

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Thursday, February 14, 2019

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!”

Making Every Day Valentine’s Day!



https://youtu.be/4fhEAzsWeOY



Wednesday, February 13, 2019

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!

Unwise Reasons to Get Married!



https://youtu.be/kUrUhI4mdcM

Tuesday, February 12, 2019

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!

7 Phrases that are a Must in order to have a Total Marriage!

These are the seven phrases that we believe are paramount to having a successful and passionate marriage.




Monday, February 11, 2019

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

Healing over a Break-up, Heartache,or a Broken Engagement!

If you are struggling with healing over a break-up, or a past relationship, or just letting go of someone who is not right for you, then this video teaching will bring the help & hope that you need!



https://youtu.be/XfcAZq1hDxA

Sunday, February 10, 2019


HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH!

Husbands & Wives give your All to your spouse. Today, give love, be affectionate, be peaceful, be a place of joy, happiness, & contentment in your home! Let your spouse know how much they mean to you through your loving actions!



HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH!


Singles, Stop Dating Your Past. When you let go of your past it will let go of you. Stop dating “Mr. & Mrs. Wrong” & love yourself better & be with someone who wants to be with you & make a future with you! “Don’t Settle When You Can Select!”

Saturday, February 9, 2019



HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

If you are struggling today with loneliness in your singleness, in your relationship, or even in your marriage, there is Hope! 

Loneliness is never really about a person or about people, but rather it’s about you really Pursuing your Purpose. The “loneliness” you feel is coming from a place deep inside of you that desires more from God, Purpose, & Life, not from a person or from people.

Another human being can’t cure your loneliness, only being who you are
Called to be in God can deliver you from the “feelings of loneliness.”

When you love yourself & when you are happy, fulfilled, & satisfied within yourself, then there can be a compliment of love in a relationship because you both are whole. 

A relationship not even a Marriage relationship will Not Complete you, because it is not supposed to... God didn’t design love & marriage for that, but you can be complete in God!

You can still “feel lonely” even in a crowd of people that’s because loneliness is not about people, but about Purpose! Stop relying on people to validate you & dictate how you feel about yourself & about your life. Never give anyone that level of power & control over you!


Get focused on Purpose & watch loneliness dissipate from your life.